A Life of Service, A Journey of Healing: U.S. Army Veteran Todd DeLong

After more than two decades of service in the U.S. Army, Lieutenant Colonel (Ret.) Todd DeLong knows what it means to live with both pride and sacrifice. Todd’s 22-year career began in the infantry before he transitioned into military intelligence and eventually network security. His final role, serving as Battalion Commander in the First Information Operations Command at Fort Belvoir, was one of leadership, responsibility and commitment. 

But life changed dramatically after a series of brain surgeries to remove an epidermoid cyst, the last in 2010 resulting in a stroke. The surgery left Todd with mobility challenges, vision loss and difficulties with speech. His wife, Nannette, his partner of nearly 40 years, has been by his side through it all. 

“Everything about our lives changed in some way,” said Nannette. “There were challenges, yes, but also opportunities to find new ways to live, connect and enjoy life. The support we’ve received has been such a gift.” 

For Todd, that support has come largely through Wounded Warrior Project® (WWP) and Warrior Canine Connection (WCC). These programs have provided not only therapeutic activities and assistance but also a sense of community and belonging. 

WWP connected Todd with a community support specialist who visits twice a week to take him to appointments, events and peer support group meetings. At one of those meetings, Todd, a dog lover, heard Warrior Canine Connection’s Sarah Olson speak, sparking his involvement with the nonprofit. Since then, Todd has completed WCC’s 8-week Mission Based Trauma Recovery (MBTR) training program, and he now volunteers as an independent dog handler.  

“I just like being with the dogs,” Todd shared simply. 

Beyond time with the dogs, Todd keeps busy through WWP activities: from football games and movie outings to fly fishing with Project Healing Waters, golfing with Links to Freedom, Tai Chi and even bass guitar lessons through Guitars for Vets. He has also participated in the VA Air Rifle Clinic and attended events like “Day at the Bay,” where Veterans and families enjoy boat rides, Maryland blue crabs and camaraderie. 

These programs provide more than just recreation — they offer healing and a renewed sense of identity.  

“Being around other Veterans makes a big difference,” Todd said. “We understand each other.” 

For Nannette, WWP’s caregiver programming has been equally impactful. She attended a retreat in 2021 that gave her both rest and connection with other caregivers.  

“It was invaluable to talk with people who truly understood what it means to care for a loved one every day,” she said. “You leave with friendships, ideas and the reassurance that you’re not alone.” 

Together, Todd and Nannette find joy in attending their grandchildren’s soccer games, cheering for James Madison University football and staying loyal to their beloved Philadelphia Eagles. They’ve built a life that balances medical challenges with moments of fun, family and connection. 

Looking ahead, Todd is even considering applying for his own service dog through WCC — a step that could add another layer of independence and companionship to his journey. 

When asked what keeps them going, Nannette doesn’t hesitate.  

“It’s about embracing the support that’s out there and staying open to what life brings. These programs have given Todd opportunities to stay active and engaged, and they’ve given me space to breathe and connect, too. We’re grateful.” 

For the DeLongs, healing is a shared journey — and with the help of WWP, WCC and a strong community of Veterans, friends and family, they continue to move forward together.
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